Episode 204

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25th May 2020

204. Jonathon Aslay - Using Gratitude as Your Pathway

Today, Lance is joined by Jonathon Aslay, one of America’s leading mid-life dating & relationship coaches, defender & protector of women’s hearts & author of Amazon’s #1 new release, “What The Heck Is Self-Love Anyway?” After losing his 19 year old son in 2018, Jonathon decided that he was going to deal with his grief through love. Lance & Jonathon chat about how we’re living in a “swipe culture” due to dating apps. Ultimately, as you will hear, Jonathon believes that no matter if you’ve been swiped left or swiped right, be grateful. Be sure to listen to the end to hear the secrets on what women really want!


🥇WHAT IS ONE LESSON YOU HAVE LEARNED FROM ADVERSITY🥇

Jonathon answers with, “Just keep moving forward.  Everything is going to be ok.”



IN THIS EPISODE, YOU WILL LEARN:



Connect with Jonathon Aslay:

1. Follow Jonathon on Facebook, LinkedIn, Twitter & Instagram

2. Find Jonathon on his website

3. Subscribe to Jonathon’s YouTube Channel

4. Listen to Jonathon’s podcast “The What Would Love Do?” .  Specifically Episode 6:  “5 Signs of Emotional Maturity”

5. Purchase your very own copies of “What The Heck Is Self-Love Anyway?” & “Understand Men Now: The Relationships Men Commit To And Why”


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Learn how to shift your perspective on adversity by understanding that although adversity may feel like your worst enemy, it is actually your greatest ally. My mission is to connect with unique and inspiring individuals and showcase their journey and what they have gone through in order to become successful in their lives. Tune in three times a week with Lance Essihos for your gold-filled lesson of inspiration, resilience, and bravery. Don’t forget to subscribe!

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About the Podcast

University of Adversity
Real stories and tools to help you grow through adversity, burnout, and reinvention.
University of Adversity is a show about the moments that change us — especially the ones we didn’t ask for.

I’m Lance Essihos, and I sit down with athletes, bestselling authors, doctors, entrepreneurs, spiritual teachers, and everyday warriors to have real conversations about adversity — the kind that strips away the surface and forces us to face who we really are.

We go deep into the mindset shifts, emotional breakthroughs, and practical tools that helped them rebuild. Not just to survive, but to come back stronger, clearer, and more aligned.

This isn’t motivation.
It’s what happens after the breakdown, when you’re trying to put the pieces back together and make it mean something.

If you’re in a season of uncertainty, burnout, or reinvention — this show is here to walk with you.

We don’t just talk about getting through the hard times.
We talk about who you become because of them.

About your host

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Lance Essihos

As an experienced veteran with adversity, Lance has faced some of life's most difficult challenges. Grinding his way through the hockey ranks to traveling the world as a bartender. Through his personal battle with drugs and alcohol for well over a decade, the tragic loss of his brother to suicide followed by the great loss of his father to cancer only a year later, Lance realized he had hit rock bottom. In the darkest of days, he made a promise to himself that he would create a new life, one that would make an impact and inspire the masses, leaving the world in a better place than he found it. Lance has made it his mission to facilitate the message of positive change through adversity and encourage people to see the light through the darkness of life's worst moments.